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Friday, April 30, 2010
Posted by: jab
Time: 5:17 PM
Comments: 1
what true friendship is...
recently i was talking to this "friend" of mine [yeah inverted commas (: ]
and i guess that this "friend" of mine was missing out on something. you see this "friend" of mine doesn't believe in friendship, well not best friends kind of friendship. he thinks having a best friend is "gay" i guess. but last night something happened to me. && it made me realise how lucky i am to have best friends.
i was feeling really bad last night and the first person that noticed that i was down i guess was one of my best friends. she asked right away, even though i admit it was bad timing.... :L i was grateful that she understood that i wasn't happy and she was genuinely worried about me. && that made me realise another thing... that "friend" of mine that didnt believe in best friends and friendship.. he was missing out on a lot ...
he was missing out on the fact that someone would notice and be worried about you everytime you were sad and lonely or angry.he was missing out on a person to share his sorrows with and other problems that he might've wanted to take off his chest. even though i must say it is hard to open up entirely to a person at first..
i think its worth it in the end.
i dont think people should be afraid of having a best friend because of "what could happen" (like ur best friend steals ur boyfriend or backstabs you) people should just jump in and see what can happen && look on the bright side of things as opposed to having a pessimistic view on things. i hope that this "friend" of mine comes to realise that friendship is something that is so valuable and it should be cherished. and it can get you through the hardest of times; the times when you think nothing can help you get through it.

well theres a quote
"if you are true friends with someone.. when there's a silence it isn't an awkward one"

i think all of my besties (theres like 5 of them) but there is a best one as well.. i can have just comfortable silences with them. where no words need to be said. and there isn't any awkwardness between us. its just so comfortable and reassuring.
iloveyou guys.

bye for now (: xx

liljay



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